I consider myself very easy going. In order for us to have the best time together, here are a few things worth mentioning..

Consideration

I accept deposits virtually, but the remainder is to be gifted in cash only unless I’ve agreed to another form of payment prior to our date.

If we are connecting in public, an unsealed envelope placed in a book or gift bag is preferred. If meeting privately, in an envelope.

If you arrive without cash you will need to go to the bank, which will take away from our time together.

Outfit Requests

My favorite outfit request is “whatever you feel best in.” I will always be dressed stylishly & appropriately for our date. If you would like me to dress down for discretion, I would be glad to honor such a request. Otherwise, I ask that you trust me.

Overnight Dates & Multiple Days

Overnight dates are up to 14ish hours. I shoot for 7-8 hours of sleep.

For multiple days I may require a room for myself if we’ve just met. As well as an hour or two mid day to check in with my pet sitter, do the crossword, doom scroll the news, etc. I’m fairly introverted & recharge by being alone.

Gifts

I am always surprised & gracious to receive gifts! I love gift cards to TheRealReal, Net-a-Porter, Saks, & Bergdorfs. I have an online wishlist here which I update regularly :)

Reviews?

I do not participate in review boards & have a no review policy.